I have spent almost a week at my sister's house and its been really fun. But I have been struggling with how to treat my niece and nephews. I have seen the things they do when mom's not around, and I have felt a need to be a second mom. I had an epiphany today. They don't need a second mom, or a second discipliner, they need a person who loves them the way they are. They need an adult friend and playmate. I'm going to try harder to be that rather than what I have been this last week.